Try to move on and just do you. I really love being with the person i am with but we get so much grief from some people about the age difference. He chooses you though your heaitation to married makes me ask have you chosen him ? He keeps thinking about in the future when he is a certain age and me being 23 yrs older. The 28 year old is helping me settle in this new town and taking me to places and tells me that I am such a lady and so smart and elegant. I have 2 kids from my previous relationship of 15 years and I could say now with my new love ,im truly happy even of the age difference. He is an old soul and I am a Kindred spirit.. Im 49 yrs lady dating 36 yrs guy its been great sex is awesome never be insecure he wants you. His mom is also 5 years older than her boyfriend! I cant help but think hes playing with my mind all the time he does that. Hi, im 36 years old and my bf is 23, and we had some problems when we started becuase i was ,married for 10 years my ex: tells me that he could be my son made me feel so bad i was feeling stupid like what am i doing , but my boyfriend didnt give up on us, and slowly im getting use to it sometimes we go out he wants to hold my hand i feel a bit strange but im getting use to it he makes me real happy , very responsable young man. We are happy and rolling with it, True Story: My husband and I have separate bedrooms. Hes a faithful man, he goes to work, and he make sure I have what I need But the jealousy and controlling insecure stuff is running me away And I have tried but he knows where I live. I'm about to be 26 next month. We spend Friday night thru Monday morning together. Is 5 years difference really large enough to be significant ? I feel in love with a 20 year old guy, Im 29 years. Weve been obsessed with each other for about a year and a half. I think it comes down to where both of you are in life and what you both are looking for. It's not an issue. Like they truly wont have any good advice to tell me and theyll just be like get over him, thats weird. Im not afraid of judgement because Its my life and Im the only one living it so why would I let anyone else influence me in a negative way! Answer (1 of 25): 25 years is a huge gap, I couldnt blame a 50 y/o man to be attracted to younger woman, but certainly the chances of succeding of this relationship are very low. Hes respectful and did I mention gorgeous lol Im not dating or having sex. Is that legal in your state? When he asked me if I'd consider marriage, I had to tell him no, but not because I don't love him. I am thirty-three and am starting to go out with a twenty year old (I know it barely makes a difference, but he is turning twenty-one a month from now). But I am nervous about how family would react. Web A 34-year-old woman was shot and killed in a parking garage at the Westfield Galleria in WebNo!!! Now we are sleeping together 5 nights out of seven. I do think at 20 I didn't really have the maturity and independence to handle an "adult" relationship. Here is the issue, your comparing yourself to the average 30 year old. Yes, it is a virtual/ online affair. Out of curiosity, did that relationship work? Would you ever want a boyfriend and a husband? Also, "cradle robbing" runs in my family: my grandpa is 10 years older than my grandma (happily married for 51 years), my mom is 3 years older than my dad (together for 33 years and married for 30) and many of my cousins are dating or have dated much younger counterparts! Want to spend your time, money, and energy on purpose? It was fun and all but there were things that just werent working out. So to those of you saying yuck etc. It feels so weird tho. My best friend is 22 which is I don't care about age gap at all. I did not know at first as he is very mature and seems to look/act more like 35, I am often told that I look 35 and younger, no-one ever guesses my age correctly. Theyre all happy and fine in their relationships. I havent been in a relationship for over 10 years, since I got my heart broken last and I just busied myself with work. My oldest moved out a few months after that. i am worried about what others will say but he looks 25 and i am told i look 28 so i think it could work if my son can accept it but thats the hard part for me. Alex It wasn't planned. I just dont want to hurt him. We started talking on an online dating site and hit off from there. It is not statutory rape, it is creepy, and if it is against parental authority it may fall under other statutes. 3 years later and we've been married for a year. woman P.S. This is fantastic! I totally agreed. Even if our partner is messy, snores, or goes to bed at a different time, we soldier on. I was nervous to meet his family, but they were so wonderful and accepting. I'm writing what I call a trovel it's a novel with more truth than fiction. I have never really wanted to be a mother but now that I am with child my mine set I think has changes. I told him i have no problem waiting for him since i have a full time job myself, ill keep myself busy, but he says he doesnt want to do that too me. Woohoo! Hard to believe that two people can actually love each other. It's not an incredible age difference, to be honest. The first being that we worked together and I was already seeing another coworker romantically, and the second being that he is five years younger than me and Ive never experienced dating a younger man before. There are young women who do date men who are much older than them, but that usually happens with the guy being rich. As I write in my WHIP feature (Im quoting myself. Im such a fool, I am 51 about to be 52 and my boyfriend is 39 about to be 40 and Our relationship is the best ,he is my best friend and the love of my life Ive never been more happier ,we are about to get married next year! WebAnonymous. And yes he wants to get married..and not have their traditional arranged marriage. He's a few months younger than my baby brother! I know he is a kid, and very aware that this is only just sex, but he is so sweet, sex is pretty amazing but cant get him off my head. Am 34 and my boyfriend is 25 e is very nice always makes me comfortable but I dont look my age I look way too young is it OK to be with him. My Birthday was in April and Hers is the day after mine, Two Peas in a Pod! I met him just over two years ago when my marriage was falling apart and he was so supportive and kind even before my separation and the beginning of our relationship (which I never thought Id ever want again since my ex husband broke my heart) and he made me believe in the truest of loves because he loves me at my most joyful and saddest moments. He has just decided to end the relationship as his strict french parents won't approve if we take it further. It dampened my spirit but everything I think about him I remember how happy I am around him. , I have been seeing a French guy for two years, everything is perfect and very much in love. let them judge! He does look at me and gives me those special smiles, and I know he loves me with a depth so deep it is scary. He had this sort of surface charisma and seemed very intellectual for his age and had a sort of cockiness that Ill admit Ive always liked in any man. Follow along with her awesomery on Facebook or Instagram! A 40yo man generally has his life together and can provide financially. WebI am 29 and he is 24. Im 45 and seeing a 31 yr old man ? Haters be damned: Im 23 and I love my wrinkly 60-year-old girlfriend. What if it was your 18 year old son dating a 29 year old woman? Tell him your age, don't keep secrets at this point in your Relationship, honesty is the best policy! I sat there shocked that I could only think of one thing, I love reading. I have been told that I look younger than my age too, when I am with my daughters, we are mistaken as sisters. Well celebrate our third wedding anniversary this December. But if it's making you feel uncomfortable then step back from it. (Accidentally because I, um, didn't realize it was a date? I have no children and very much one day hope I will be blessed with at least one. Good luck, Dee. suddenly ex proclaims his undying love for me & insists I take him back! I moved out that day before he got out of work. He says we can be friends; so trying to determine what this means to HIM! Just goes to show you age does not mean anything. And I encourage you all to think the same! There are differences, but these can be wonderful for both partners if neither of you interpret them as bad. Im a 27 year old female really into a guy who is 22. I dont look my age but I do if you know what I mean, put me in middle aged clothes and dye my hair mouse brown and Id pass for 40. But I dont want anyone else and he just cant seem to get it thru his thick head. But I do love him. is not jaded so much by the world. I am a 43-year-old woman who started dating a 25-year-old man three months ago, which my mother set me up with. I'm 30, my girlfriend is 25, last girl I dated before her I was 29 and my ex was 22. My last relationship of 4 years was with a man 13 years older than me. But after about a month and a half things changed. We dated a while and once he made me feel safe and we got intimate he broke my heart and became incredibly cruel. I let him call the shots in the relationship because I want him to feel entitled, not like he's my boytoy, or someone he has to listen to and obey just because I'm older and well I was crying about Kurt Cobain dying when the year he was born. Vikki! And if be dating him makes me a cougar or a cradle robber, or whatever, it's totally worth it. He tried to see me for two months and I finally gave in. His brother and his sister are good friends of mine too and I hug his parents and his grandma all the time when I see them so Im really close with his family ( I even call his grandma my grandma because my mom has always called her mom) so my parents know him and his family very well too. We are both Christians. Im so confused because all we want is to be left alone and love each other. But hes so insure and has to constantly be texting me. Date him, have sex, spend time together, chat, talk, video, laugh and just live. I dated a guy that was 27 and I am 35. I think if I gave sex with him it will take us both to the next level but it could do the opposite. WebDoubtful. The age difference had played a huge role in our constant break ups. Men my age don't seem to know what they want, don't recognise what's good when they have it, or have too many hang-ups to unpack without losing your mind a little in the process! I often think that of I pursued this relationship if be perpetually insecure that hed eventually leave me for a younger model . My reservation was that I am 29 in a month and he is 24 and not turning 25 for a while. I mean, its like Im acting like a teenager again, sending heart emoticon texts, finding stairwells where nobody is around and ducking into them to make out and get all hot and heavy And I mean, Im only 29 but having been in a stale marriage for so long, it is absolutely incredible to have a man make me feel this way. Im in the same boat, I have a really good guy friend of mine who is 2 years younger then me and I really like him and hes admitted he likes me hes 16 im 18. But I feel like its wronghow can I get over that or can I. I'm dating a boy who is two years younger than me, sometimes he is immature, but at the same time, he is so fun to be with! Only I am in deep trouble. Take his age out of the equation. He's much more comfortable in the relationship now and we're soon to hit our anniversary. At least no one saw that except for a 100 or so people sitting in the room. I am beyond terrified because i know this cannot lead to anything but me getting crushed when that time comes. Is that okay for me and him to be dating on next year in the real life? I remember being 21 and hitting on a 19 year old actress only to be rejected for a 50 year old who looked like Danny Devito, same stature too, but he also had dozens of millions of dollars in his bank accounts, so. And i think he is amazing, Well im 26 year old and i date a 22 year old guy that im in love with any advice, Wow true. The scary part now is he's feeling lost, feeling like he doesn't knw who he is anymore. My beautiful man has so much maturity and understanding about him. Im 27 year old female dating a 19 year old and I think hes cheating,lieing,and using me.like he sleeps with me everyday we post each other on Facebook everyone knows we together.he says he loves me I already got pregnant by him 3 or 4 times didnt keep it just cause I dont wanna be a single parent again he was hurt all those times I didnt tell him I got a abortion ?? I am scared to death. I just went out with a 54 year old man, and Im 65 and really dont know how to handle it. I am 48 yrs old and I am dating a 24 yr old .I met him through my sons who are 25 and 24.He is a friend of them .He was super cute and I asked my sons if it was okay if I dated their friend.At first they were uncomfortable with their friend dating their mum but now they think its cool.My boyfriend is extremely hot and its the best relationship Ive ever had.I know I am too old to Ive him children ,we have tried and I have miscarried once already but we are hopeful.I would like to have his baby. Xoxo. Dating I Just dont want to tell anyone because my friends literally wont understand me. The 29 year old thinks that I am sexy, hot and have a body to die for, and talks about my boobs and etc.. It is fabulous being the arm candy of a younger man. I am a 53 yr old female dating a 26 yr old guy. I just thought mine wouldve been more mature being that hes a copsad to say that I was wrong. A 24-year-old should date somebody at least 19. Me and him havent talked about whether we like each other etc. Im 26 and the guy i love is 24, He just told me he cant continue with the relationship cause Im older than him.. please I need advice cause Im heart broken. Since the world is still so new to him it's fun to take him around and explore old places that I felt excited to go to when I was that age. are you kitten me right meow???????????? We started out as just friends, but he was so sweet and funny and mature (for his age) that I figured, why not give it a try? But girls Im 18 years older than him. I've decided I'm going to focus on the awesome person that he is and how much I enjoy his company. 29 year old woman dating 24 year old man Im glad Im not the only one! I just sometimes dislike the thought that it's still considered more of a topic than having an older man. You deserve to be happy! Thats my only concern. Age does not determine your level of love anymore than going to a supermarket with no money will buy you groceries. Only the time so would say stoppp he would keep doing it until I catch an attitude.. like idk no man around my age or older who would intentionally keep aggravating someone that doesnt want to be bother. God Im driving myself crazy. Dont know what became of him, but I did gather that the pregnancy scare ended up being nothing and he didnt need any money anyway. If anything it makes sense because we will be caring for the man so he would be younger. I have just started going out with a 24-year-old man. Is this legal in your area/state? And my middle child is 10. He is always asking to help, cares about my work, cooks, have amazing business ideas that he suggests we should do together. Life is too short not to do what makes you happy. You can join an internet dating site like eHarmony or OurTime or join a dating app specifically designed for seniors, like Senior People Meet or Stitch. My mother is dead set against it its ridiculous, hes too young and sometimes I want to scream. I feel terrible because I'm worried what people will think, especially his family. I know that he really cares for me I just hope one day even though we are of different culture he wont let that stop him from been with me because I really and truly love this man. These days eight years is not really an age gap. We live together.he is a great man and provider. We compliment each other and have a true love for each other.We are both very open minded with our age and cultural differences and we seem to find a way to embrace that. He knows Im not looking for anything serious so we agreed to just live life and have fun. WebSo if youre a 24-year-old, you can feel free to be with anyone who is at least 19 (12 + 7) Yeah, thats a 10 year age gap. He was 20 and not so good at being straightforward.) Now he sees me as a granny and no longer wants to be together. We still get a lot of looks when were out as a couple. Weve been together for a year now and I really enjoy it. I'm going through something similar. my boyfriend of almost three years is 4 years younger than me. He always talk about our age difference but to be honest with you I told him age shouldnt be a factor when you care for someone and that someone care for you. Can a 24 year old male date a 28 year old female? : I now know that my feelings for him are very deep and I fear I'm getting attached to someone who is going to burn me (he may be gone for career training out of town for many months). Is it that okay when we are in a long distance relationship? Well, its wonderful two full adults can love each other without others opinion or advice. Only some). I am 28 he is 20! I'm his first official girlfriend and he's never dated someone for longer than a month. My younger 17 year old son and him are best friends, I am a 44 yr old woman in a relationship with a 26 yr old man. What do I do next, what do I like? Any advice from anyone would be appreciated. WebThey dote on you and treat you like a queen and are usually proud to show you off. It was all really sad. Is this normal? He doesnt look younger Than me, but It still is bothering me, we havent been in time to yet just a kiss, but I havent been in a relationship in a long time and this scares me. God placed him in my life for a reason and Im running..with him arm and arm.Enjoy the moment. I am very confused, I dropped off his coat yesterday while going to work and he asked me where his hug and kiss was, so I gave him a kiss and hug. I'm currently dating an 18 year old and I have just turned 27, we are the best of friends and were for a while before dating. Something went wrong. Now he will not even speak to me and I have done nothing wrong. Im so confused. Dont let any kind of prejudice remarks get in the way , (race, age, gender), its your life and it is only between you and that other person. If my eighteen year old daughter (who lives at home) tried to date a 29 year old, it would hit the fan (and so would the 29 year old). So he is 18 and he thinks I am 18. I must admit I have been battling my own demons in my head over this very subject. ive been dating this girl for a month she sed she was 16 and im 19 almost 20 she kinda lied to me about her age and my friend told me she lied to me bc she liked me a lot and she was scard that i wouldnt be with her after finding her relly age and she is 13 im 5 years older then her we live in different stats we Skype and talk about stuff but we dont do any thing sexle i feel like we wont get in trouble if we dont do anything we are not sospued to im just asking is it ok to date a girl that is 5 years younger then u if it is can some won let me no. He tells me Im beautiful and I am his. I am a 53 year old gay man and head over heels for a 23 year old young .overseas. I am 49 yrs old, my bf is 26 yrs old, we starting dating last year, moved in together immediately and besides the fighting and wanting to kill each other we just crasy about one another. So, thats it. Which when you think about it is a pretty silly way of thinking about dating. I decided today to just go for it. I say go for it and I am so happy for you!!? Im 15 about to turn 16 trying to get with this 26 year old girl and I dont know how to convince her, It normal, as I'm also dating a woman 9 years older than me. I am 31 and this young man that I have fell in love with is 20 he was only 19 when I met him a year ago this month I sid com we on to him cause I thought he was 22 or close to 25 but he wasnt I also slept with him on our first date I had been through alot prior to meeting him and just wanted to have fun n bring something back into my life because I have always been a person to have fun and just that and really was always scared to be in love it has been pure lust but I cant get him off my mind in my heart I love him he knows how I feel some what but not fully he has fell back frm me 3 times within the year the first time it took 3 months we was not to talking than the second time we were really getting close than his ex had a baby he ayep up vause could have been his but it wasnt n he fell back right before he find out it wasnt his that was the third time n we didnt talk for a couple months now we baxk talking he explained to me that every time im rude which I have been because of my past and just the Scorpio that I am and I fell to mention when we dis sleep together the first time I flipped out cause it was so good and set rules but th we more we would sleep together I would gradually break the rules I don't know but that im having a hard te to walk away cauae I love him so much I mwan I know I do cause its in my heart not just lust but in love, Glad to see Im not the only one this is happening to. 27 male & 47 female been going strong 6 years and about to get married ? On average, a man choosing a woman five years older is marrying his physiological equal, making it more likely they will age together. So I see no problem with datingA younger man. I had a 1yo son. Get yourself out and find that young man who you can fall in love with. We married 3 1/2 years later. Did you have to have the kid talk? Im the person who would rather go out and be active, run around and play sports or go exploring than stay on my phone all day like most people my age, so I get along with younger people because they are more my speed but Im not immature by any means. Shes a Mother of 3 grown kids and also Grandmother to 2 beautiful grandkids and soon to be 3 as we found out recently her 24 year old daughter is expecting! That's all I would be concerned about. Nice to hear your comment, I am having sex with a 30 yr old, I am almost54, he makes me feel young again, he keeps telling me he loves me I finally told him I love him, but he still wants to have sex with other women, he holds my hand kisses me, and hugs me in public. First year in college too. OMG, what to do? I was always the more mature one. Are french parents really that draconian and are their children really that guided by them. WebTheres no rule book to dating (excluding minors of course) my friend is a 29 year old He wants to be with me. And can I say, I HATE it when people find out that he's 5 years younger and automatically say "ooooh, you're a cougar!" When I was 27 I dated an 18 year old. I love and miss him terribly and he will not even give me a real reason. At least, I'm told that the young guy wants someone his age or younger whom he can have babies with What do you guys think? He told me I was the most beautiful woman hed ever seen in his life. But the thing is, I dont even want to date him now (I mean I do, but I wont), I care for him so much that I just want the best for him. Im 31 and hes 19 his mother hates me and Ive even had to get a restraining order against her. Our children are 37 & 29. Im a 21 year old girl who is currently messing around with her 18 year old next door neighbor. I really always felt we had chemistry. I love this man and I dont see him as an age, he is an amazing, kind, sexy, hot, gentle man. Its just incredible. We love what we can bring to each other whether its normal or not, there is just so much in this relationship that we are gaining from that we find ourselves in awe of it. They dont have to play childish games with an older female We know what we want and they love that confidence. One thing is he has kids and grandkids, who we both know about us even though we haven't said. year Hes told me a story of an older woman he liked but she turned him down bcs of the age thing.
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